Dad's Impact

A parent once asked me what my parents did to instill a heart for God in my life. It was a question that caused me to consider if I could identify specific things they did. Of course, it is the Spirit of God through the Word of God that brings real change in the heart of man. Yet, the Holy Spirit uses men and circumstances to impact the lives of others. My dad made an impact in my life.

My dad is a quiet man who led by example more than by word. His resume would not be filled with amazing accomplishments that would cause others to stop and take notice. However, he had a deep commitment to his family, faithfully took his family to church and served the same company for more than 40 years.

I am the youngest of four. As the baby, I was spoiled (just ask my brother!). My parents were older when I came along: they were tired. This combination can spell trouble, and I grew into a mouthy, stubborn teenager. This is where dad’s impact made a difference.

My dad’s example stands out to me in two key ways: his work and his time. My dad did not work long hours, but his time was well spent. He would arrive to work thirty minutes early because he “could accomplish more in those quiet moments than during the rest of the day.” His customers have told me on several occasions that they would call my dad to unleash their anger about a problem and before they were off the phone, they had forgotten why they were mad and my dad had begun to resolve the problem. My dad’s quiet yet determined character saved business for the company and left a lasting impact with me.

During those teen years, when I was far from lovable my dad created shared experiences that kept me on his team. My memory is full of camping, fishing, and hunting expeditions. I do not remember what was said, but I was with my dad. He will turn 91 in May and his impact is seared into my memory.

I am a dad to two young men. I have pursued education, studied psychology and tried to understand what will impact my boys and students. And yet, my dad, without formal training, did what the experts say is critical; by his example, he instilled in me a desire to follow and love his God. Thank you, Dad!

To read more about what my dad taught me: http://www.principalthoughts.net/2012/11/greatest-generation.html.