Partnering with Your Child's Teacher

My wife and I are preparing for our last parent/teacher conference. Our youngest is a senior in high school (And yes, we still go!). Partnership is essential at all levels. As you have prepared to meet with your child's teacher, have you ever wondered, "What is he thinking? What motivates her?" As Christian teachers, there are principles that guide our interactions with your child. The Bible teaches these principles through warnings, blessings and joys that directly impact those who minister in Christian education. In a recent discussion with the PCA faculty, they shared some of these thoughts that influence how they approach the classroom and your child.

When asked what is the strongest warning for teachers found in Scripture, the answer came quickly – millstone.  For those that know that reference, you will understand why it brings chills to a teacher. “If anyone causes one of these little ones—those who believe in me—to stumble, it would be better for them to have a large millstone hung around their neck and to be drowned in the depths of the sea” (Matthew 18:6). Furthermore, we are warned, “not many of you should become teachers, my fellow believers, because you know that we who teach will be judged more strictly” (James 3:1). The influence that we have on your children comes with an immense level of responsibility. It is not taken lightly.

However, heeding these warnings prepares us for the incredible blessings reserved for teachers. One blessing comes from appreciating that teaching is both a gift and calling from God (I Corinthians 12:28, Romans 12:7). Just like David, we have the honor of sharing the story of redemption based on what Jesus has done for us. “Restore to me the joy of your salvation and grant me a willing spirit, to sustain me. Then I will teach transgressors your ways, so that sinners will turn back to you” (Psalm 51:12,13). Ultimately, we have the privilege to represent Jesus each day to your child.

As we partner with parents, we respect the challenges faced in raising children. You are a partner in both the warnings and blessings discussed because you are your child’s primary teacher (Deuteronomy 6:6,7). We also share the ultimate goal that many of you have for your children. “I have no greater joy than to hear that my children walk in truth” (III John 4).  And that is well worth partnering with you to accomplish!